Entourage Season 5, Episode 12 review: Return to Queens BLVD

First of all, my brother was right. I love this episode of Entourage. Somehow I am touched by this episode. The emotions of highs and lows did the trick, trickle of happy tears finally came after a whole season of mistreat from Hollywood and the mistreatment to E.

The emotions was let loose this episode and the closeness of home was indeed very powerful and made me felt close to home too. Finally something is going right for all of them. With Turtle openly going out Jamie ‘Meadow Soprano’, the envy also sets it for all those around him, and the ‘realness’ of being caught at home by his mum on the phone was hilarious. Not that it ever happen to me…., but lets some say all guys has some sort of similar experiences one way or the other.

Johnny Drama found a way a to feed his Ego once again and I hope it works out for him too. He is the ultimate example of ‘relentless, patience and persistence’, no matter how quak he seems to be. He definitely pass some of those mojo to Vince this season..although it did nearly break him to the very brim of it all. Like Paul Coelho says in his book ‘The Alchemist’, when one had gave it his all towards the destiny he is meant to have, to the edge of it all, just when you are about to give up, or even given up, something will always come through. The writer did a great job on this one.

This Vince and E journey was certainly a mimic of the very first season when they flew to New York for ‘Queen’s Boulevard’, except this time we actually see his hometown and see how they all roll, in the face of their mums, not sure if my mum will attempt things like this when i go home in January 2009, I certainly do not want to get cock block my my mum. That would be sad. So sad. lol………, on the same subject, my mum had never done that so far, lets hope it will not happen.

We all love the chemistry once again emitted by the cast of entourage and I must add the fans of Entourage are one of the most loyal ones I see. I think its the ‘close to home’ feeling, the clique, the friends, the siblings, the things we do and forgave each other that constantly does the trick.

Let’s say, thank to the entire cast of Entourage, fans, producers, those who worked on the set, and HBO network that make this all happen. Because like FedEX, what do we say, ‘They always deliver!’ and of course… its Ari’s freight number we will be using right.

Adios and lets hope we have more news of Entourage during this torturing weeks, watch the reruns of the it… over and over again, please ourselves to no end till the new season comes.

I would say this season and this episode certainly echoes Vince’s line in the movie he travelled to New York for ——- ‘” I am Queens Boulevard.”

Bless you all.

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Entourage Season 5, Episode 10 Review: Seth Green Day

OK for a start ladies I know you all are going to hate me but…..Phoaw!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! How goodness damn good does Sloane looks. Oh my gosh, oh my gosh, oh my gosh! Smoking and for some who said the same way about Adrian, I would like to use the same phrase —- she looks tasty too!!! She looks hot… ok, now let’s proceed to normal reviewing… lol

The episode saw E having to control his emotions and temper for the sake of business…, its hard for a guy, especially when one jealous ‘EX’ (but apparently not… according to Sloane).

After much confirmation, and probably what all guys need was that Seth Green did not bed Sloane and never has. So Seth is actually the guy who probably has been very ‘jealous’ and still is, of E who went out with Sloane and thinks why not him if she chose E. Jealousy is the word, so therefore its Seth lost for losing the plot. I got a funny feeling, Turtle might get cast in it, I dont know why, since the doors are open at the moment and ends up represented by E as well. LOL, that would be funny.

As for Vince, it seems like his acting skills has room for improvements and the director is just helping him, maybe yes and maybe no. Who knows… maybe Verne sees potential in him, but Vince needs to be taught. It all could be wrong,…. but Vince is back on the learning ladder again. So we just have to wait and see, but as for all actors, there are always room for improvements. So does DeNiro and Pacino…. coz Seriously Kill’s story was … ok , but the acting … was that tiny far off…., that makes you feel could be better rather than just a paycheck. So back on acting training for Vince.

As for Ari Gold and Babs… its a funny situation. She is power tripping for sure. She could have acquire a profitable business and try someone out with potential ‘some pass record’ agent. Why does she not give him the chance? Could it be because of some other reasons?

But the dressing up of Andrew Klein did not go as well, maybe its to downplay the character so he can deliver something for Ari in the next season… so something is up there (like ‘watch this space’). And for Ari to storm into Bab’s ceremony is something.. and i bet Ari Gold is known to be some kind of A hole in the industry… LOL, I think???!! LOL

All in all, I am going to watch this episode again just because Sloane is in it. E for acting like any guy who is a proper gentleman, the only one in the film i must add, and see the development of the characters. I kind of like today’s episode, it reaffirms things like Sloane never did Seth Green, Sloane still likes E, E still likes Sloane, and Vince’s acting can be improve… that is the only way his character can evolve…not just through his present acting skills, but maturing acting skills… a different skills set to wow the industry and the audience’s respect back. Ari’s evolving as the main shareholder in the company and learns how to deal with things more politically when working with a woman. They can be so sensitive!!!! hehehehehe

Sloaneeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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This Live Election Map from Google is Cute!

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How Digital Can Save Starbucks and Why “My Starbucks Idea” May Not

March 27th, 2008 by Garrick Schmitt

http://www.digitaldesignblog.com/2008/03/27/how-digital-can-save-starbucks-and-why-my-starbucks-idea-wont/

Starbucks, more than any other company, has given rise to the “experience economy.” But today the company, with its sagging stock price, is in a deep funk. With shares down around 40%, sales flat to declining and foot traffic falling off, many industry analysts question where Starbucks lost its way: Did it too quickly abandon the coffeehouse experience for Frappacinos? Did it build too many stores? Did it neglect the notion of a “third place” that fueled its initial rise?

While there is truth in all of that, I believe one of Starbucks’ biggest mistakes was in not passionately embracing digital as a way to communicate with their customers — or even carry on a conversation. Ironic, given that Starbucks’ magic was built on creating a physical place for conversation.

Last week the company took its first tentative digital steps towards engaging its customers with My Starbucks Idea. The site, built on an application from Salesforce.com’s AppExchange, asks customers to submit their “Starbucks Idea” and allows them to vote, discuss and see what happened to each user’s submission. It’s a virtual suggestion box, of sorts, that Dell (IdeaStorm) and Oracle (Mix) have put to good use previously.

While I commend Starbucks for taking a stab at social media, I’m surprised at the tentativeness of their effort. While hundreds of people have submitted ideas and comments – such as providing free WiFi, to creating a frequent customer punch card, to complaining about the amount of pesto on a sandwich – there seems to be very little actual conversation about the ideas. Most shockingly, is the sound of silence from Starbucks itself. There is no dialog on My Starbucks Idea (especially from “partner” moderators). It looks like Starbucks may be letting yet another digital opportunity slip away.

UPDATE: In recent days the amount of comments has skyrocketed on My Starbucks Idea, with some posts generating upwards of 400 responses and some heavy activity from partner moderators (albeit with a very hard to identify sbx in their user name). Clearly there is a groundswell of customer activity happening — now the question is what Starbucks will do to continue the conversation. Below are 5 ways for Starbucks to build on all of the excitement.

1. Create Real Community – Take inspiration from this Howard Schultz quote: My highest aim is to have the entire Starbucks experience provide human connection and personal enrichment in cherished moments, around the world, one cup at a time. Turn Starbucks.com into a highly personal and local experience that engages consumers with rich content (coffee recommendations, music recommendations from Hear.com, book recommendations, etc.); rich tools (calendar and organization tools ala MeetUp.com) and a set of distinctive, authentic, voices via “partner” generated blogs. Better yet, tailor recommendations based on user profiles and controls (e.g. “I like”, “I don’t like”)

2. Create Real Conversations – Build upon the My Starbucks Idea to have a real conversation with loyalists about what works at Starbucks and what doesn’t. Create community brand champions (ala my.barackobama.com) that allow people to organize local events, meet other enthusiasts, etc. Starbucks.com should provide the tools for people to connect with each other and the brand. Let consumers reserve space in stores for book readings or community meetings. A nice set of mapping tools and rich local information wouldn’t hurt either.

3. Target Coffee Connoisseurs – It’s no secret that Starbucks lost focus on the “coffeehouse” experience as it sought to grow and sell new and more diverse offerings. Offline, the company just purchased Clover which makes a gourmet $11,000 single-cup brewer. Online, there is no mention of this – nor is their any real info about coffee, tastings, blends, etc. Starbucks.com should be a wealth of coffee information that allows users to get recommendations on different blends and varieties. In many ways augmenting the somewhat limited knowledge of their baristas.

4. Encourage Global Participation – Few brands have ability to inspire their consumers like Starbucks. The company should leverage this by encouraging a series of “whole” initiatives (such as green, wellness, etc) and give consumers the tools to affect change in their local communities, in developing companies and more. It’s a powerful notion and one that is perfect for the brand. Imagine integrations with Kiva.org for microfinance loans in developing nations or Treehugger.com around conservation.

5. Buck the Fast Food Trend – Starbucks.com should not mimic McDonalds or Dunkin’ Donuts. It shouldn’t have big, gratuitous pictures of products (e.g. Honey Latte) or be about contests or offers or games. There is more substance in the brand and the need that it fulfills for many people – it’s time to take Starbuck’s original offline ethos into the digital world and use the lightweight Web 2.0 tool sets to engage consumers in a way that other fast-food franchises can’t. The iTunes and iPhone programs are a start (more on that in another post), but there is much more to be done. The time is now.

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Why talent is overrated?

Why talent is overrated

The conventional wisdom about “natural” talent is a myth. The real path to great performance is a matter of choice.
By Geoff Colvin, senior editor at large
Last Updated: October 21, 2008: 4:44 PM ET

(Fortune Magazine) — It is mid-1978, and we are inside the giant Procter & Gamble headquarters in Cincinnati, looking into a cubicle shared by a pair of 22-year-old men, fresh out of college. Their assignment is to sell Duncan Hines brownie mix, but they spend a lot of their time just rewriting memos. They are clearly smart – one has just graduated from Harvard, the other from Dartmouth – but that doesn’t distinguish them from a slew of other new hires at P&G.

What does distinguish them from many of the young go-getters the company takes on each year is that neither man is particularly filled with ambition. Neither has any kind of career plan. Every afternoon they play waste-bin basketball with wadded-up memos. One of them later recalls, “We were voted the two guys probably least likely to succeed.”

These two young men are of interest to us now for only one reason: They are Jeffrey Immelt and Steven Ballmer, who before age 50 would become CEOs of two of the world’s most valuable corporations, General Electric (GE, Fortune 500) and Microsoft (MSFT, Fortune 500). Contrary to what any reasonable person would have expected when they were new recruits, they reached the apex of corporate achievement.

The obvious question is how. Was it talent? If so, it was a strange kind of talent that hadn’t revealed itself in the first 22 years of their lives. Brains? The two were sharp but had shown no evidence of being sharper than thousands of classmates or colleagues. Was it mountains of hard work? Certainly not up to that point. And yet something carried them to the heights of the business world.

Which leads to perhaps the most puzzling question, one that applies not just to Immelt and Ballmer but also to everyone: If that certain special something turns out not to be any of the things we usually think of, then what is it?

If we’re all wrong about high achievement, that’s a big problem. In particular, if we believe that people without a particular natural talent for some activity will never be competitive with those who possess that talent – meaning an inborn ability to do that specific thing easily and well – then we’ll direct them away from that activity. We’ll steer our kids away from art, tennis, economics, or Chinese because we think we’ve seen that they have no talent in those realms.

In business, managers often redirect people’s careers based on slender evidence of what they’ve “got.” Most insidiously, in our own lives we’ll try something new and, finding that it doesn’t come naturally to us, conclude that we have no talent for it, and so we never pursue it.

A number of researchers now argue that talent means nothing like what we think it means, if indeed it means anything at all. A few contend that the very existence of talent is not, as they carefully put it, supported by evidence. In studies of accomplished individuals, researchers have found few signs of precocious achievement before the individuals started intensive training. Similar findings have turned up in studies of musicians, tennis players, artists, swimmers, mathematicians, and others.

Such findings do not prove that talent doesn’t exist. But they do suggest an intriguing possibility: that if it does, it may be irrelevant.

The concept of specific talents is especially troublesome in business. We all tend to assume that business giants must possess some special gift for what they do, but the evidence turns out to be extremely elusive. In fact, the overwhelming impression that comes from examining the lives of business greats is just the opposite – that they didn’t seem to give any early indication of what they would become.

Jack Welch, named by Fortune as the 20th century’s manager of the century, showed no particular inclination toward business, even into his mid-20s. With a Ph.D. in chemical engineering, approaching the real world at age 25, he still wasn’t sure of his direction and interviewed for faculty jobs at Syracuse and West Virginia universities. He finally decided to accept an offer to work in a chemical development operation at General Electric.

Bill Gates, the world’s richest human, is a more promising candidate for those who want to explain success through talent. He became fascinated by computers as a kid and says he wrote his first piece of software at age 13; it was a program that played ticktacktoe. The problem is that nothing in his story suggests extraordinary abilities.

As he is the first to note, legions of kids were interested in the possibilities of computers in those days. What suggested that Gates would become the king of them all? The answer is, nothing in particular.

You might suppose that in the age of genomic research, there should no longer be any question about precisely what’s innate and what isn’t. Since talent is by definition innate, there should be a gene (or genes) for it. The difficulty is that scientists haven’t yet figured out what each of our 20,000-plus genes does.
Why talent is overrated
By Geoff Colvin, senior editor at large
Last Updated: October 21, 2008: 4:44 PM ET

All we can say for the moment is that no specific genes identifying particular talents have been found. It’s possible that they will be; scientists could yet find the piano-playing gene or investing gene or accounting gene. But they haven’t so far, and doing so could be a long shot. The most one could say is that if genes exert any influence, it would seem to be much less than the whole explanation for achieving the highest levels of performance.

So if specific, inborn talent doesn’t explain high achievement, what does? Researchers have converged on an answer. It’s something they call “deliberate practice,” but watch out – it isn’t what most of us think of as practice, nor does it boil down to a simplistic practice-makes-perfect explanation.

It isn’t just hard work, either. Deliberate practice is a specific and unique kind of activity, neither work nor play. It’s characterized by several elements that together form a powerful whole. The greatest performers have consistently combined these elements, sometimes just by luck.

But now that researchers have decoded the pattern, the path to top performance is becoming much more accessible. The elements of deliberate practice are each worth examining:

1)Deliberate practice is designed specifically to improve performance. The key word is “designed.” The essence of deliberate practice is continually stretching an individual just beyond his or her current abilities. That may sound obvious, but most of us don’t do it in the activities we think of as practice. At the driving range or at the piano, most of us are just doing what we’ve done before and hoping to maintain the level of performance that we probably reached long ago.

By contrast, deliberate practice requires that one identify certain sharply defined elements of performance that need to be improved, and then work intently on them. Tiger Woods – intensely applying this principle, which is no secret among pro golfers – has been seen to drop golf balls into a sand trap and step on them, then practice shots from that near-impossible lie.

The great performers isolate remarkably specific aspects of what they do and focus on just those things until they’re improved; then it’s on to the next aspect. In most fields, years of study have produced a body of knowledge about how performance is developed and improved, and full-time teachers generally possess that knowledge.

At least in the early going, therefore, and sometimes long after, it’s almost always necessary for a teacher to design the activity best suited to improve an individual’s performance. It’s striking how many great performers had fathers who started designing their practice activities at early ages; Tiger, Picasso, and Mozart are perfect examples.

So is the New York Giants’ Super Bowl MVP quarterback, Eli Manning, whose father, Archie, was a successful NFL quarterback. Archie was always ready with instruction for Eli (and for his brother Peyton, Super Bowl-winning quarterback of the Indianapolis Colts). Eli always seemed clear that intense practice was key. According to a new biography, Eli Manning: The Making of a Quarterback, “Eli never bought into the gene theory.”

In some fields, especially intellectual ones such as the arts, science, and business, people may eventually become skilled enough to design their own practice. But anyone who thinks he’s outgrown the benefits of a teacher’s help should at least question that view. There’s a reason the world’s best golfers still go to teachers.

2) Deliberate practice can be repeated a lot. High repetition is the most important difference between deliberate practice of a task and performing the task for real, when it counts. Tiger Woods may face that buried lie in the sand only two or three times in a season, and if those were his only opportunities to work on that shot, he’d blow it just as you and I do.

Repeating a specific activity over and over is what people usually mean by practice, yet it isn’t especially effective. Two points distinguish deliberate practice from what most of us actually do. One is the choice of a properly demanding activity just beyond our current abilities. The other is the amount of repetition.

Top performers repeat their practice activities to stultifying extent. Ted Williams, baseball’s greatest hitter, would practice hitting until his hands bled. Pete Maravich, whose college basketball records still stand after more than 30 years, would go to the gym when it opened in the morning and shoot baskets until it closed at night.

3) Feedback on results is continuously available. Obvious, yet not nearly as simple as it might seem, especially when results require interpretation. You may think that your rehearsal of a job interview was flawless, but your opinion isn’t what counts. Or you may believe you played that bar of the Brahms violin concerto perfectly, but can you really trust your own judgment? In many important situations, a teacher, coach, or mentor is vital for providing crucial feedback.

4) It’s highly demanding mentally. Deliberate practice is above all an effort of focus and concentration. That is what makes it “deliberate,” as distinct from the mindless playing of scales or hitting of tennis balls that most people engage in. Continually seeking exactly those elements of performance that are unsatisfactory and then trying one’s hardest to make them better places enormous strains on anyone’s mental abilities.
Why talent is overrated
By Geoff Colvin, senior editor at large
Last Updated: October 21, 2008: 4:44 PM ET

The work is so great that it seems no one can sustain it for very long. Nathan Milstein, one of the 20th century’s greatest violinists, was a student of the famous teacher Leopold Auer. As the story goes, Milstein asked Auer if he was practicing enough. Auer responded, “Practice with your fingers, and you need all day. Practice with your mind, and you will do as much in 1-1/2 hours.” What Auer didn’t add is that it’s a good thing 1-1/2 hours are enough, because if you’re truly practicing with your mind, you couldn’t possibly keep it up all day.

5) It’s hard. This follows inescapably from the other characteristics of deliberate practice, which could be described as a recipe for not having fun. Doing things we know how to do well is enjoyable, and that’s exactly the opposite of what deliberate practice demands. Instead of doing what we’re good at, we insistently seek out what we’re not good at.

Then we identify the painful, difficult activities that will make us better and do those things over and over. After each repetition, we force ourselves to see – or get others to tell us – exactly what still isn’t right so we can repeat the most painful and difficult parts of what we’ve just done. We continue that process until we’re mentally exhausted.

If it seems a bit depressing that the most important thing you can do to improve performance is no fun, take consolation in this fact: It must be so. If the activities that lead to greatness were easy and fun, then everyone would do them and no one could distinguish the best from the rest.

The reality that deliberate practice is hard can even be seen as good news. It means that most people won’t do it. So your willingness to do it will distinguish you all the more.

If you work in the careers where the concept of deliberate practice is most deeply entrenched – sports and music – you’re probably thinking that the researchers have explained and elaborated on ideas that many people in your world have understood for a long time.

But if you’re among the far more numerous people who make a living in business-related fields, you’re probably thinking, This is absolutely nothing like work! In fact, life at most companies seems ingeniously designed to defeat all the principles of deliberate practice.

Most fundamentally, what we generally do at work is directly opposed to the first principle: It isn’t designed by anyone to make us better at anything. Usually it isn’t designed at all: We are just given an objective that’s necessary to meeting the employer’s goals and then expected to get on with it.

From the limited, short-term perspective of many employers, this is completely justified. We weren’t hired so we could spend time improving our own abilities; we were hired to produce results. While deliberate practice demands that we push ourselves to the point where we break down and then develop a solution, in our business lives the cost of mistakes is often high. Every incentive urges us to stick with what’s safe and reliable – which ensures that we won’t improve.

Continuous feedback? At most companies that is a travesty, consisting of an annual performance review dreaded by the person delivering it and the one receiving it. Even if it’s well done, it cannot be very effective. Telling someone what he did well or poorly on a task he completed 11 months ago is just not helpful.

You could say that work, like deliberate practice, is often mentally demanding and tiring. But that’s typically not because of the intense focus and concentration involved. Rather, it’s more often a result of long hours cranking out what we already know how to do. And if we’re exhausted from that, the prospect of spending additional hours on genuine deliberate practice activities may seem too miserable to contemplate.

Bottom line, at most companies: The fundamentals of fostering great performance are mainly unrecognized or ignored. Of course that means the opportunities for achieving advantage by adopting the principles of great performance are huge. A few companies realize that. They embed mentoring and coaching in the culture, develop employees’ careers through carefully chosen growth assignments, and increasingly put people through high-fidelity simulations, among other steps.

But maybe you don’t work in one of these organizations, and maybe you’re not in a position to change your company’s culture and way of operating. How can you apply the principles of great performance on your own? The opportunities are far more available than we usually realize, even in environments where it’s tough to take practice time away from real work.

Among them are well-established methods for practicing in the work itself. And they’re all done in your head. Researchers call those activities self-regulation. To be most effective, it must be something you do before, during, and after the work activity itself.
Why talent is overrated
By Geoff Colvin, senior editor at large
Last Updated: October 21, 2008: 4:44 PM ET

6) Before the work. Self-regulation begins with setting goals – not big, life-directing goals, but more immediate goals for what you’re going to be doing today. In the research, the poorest performers don’t set goals at all; they just slog through their work. Mediocre performers set goals that are general and are often focused on simply achieving a good outcome – win the order; get the new project proposal done. The best performers set goals that are not about the outcome but rather about the process of reaching the outcome.

For example, instead of just winning the order, their goal might be to focus especially hard on discerning the customer’s unstated needs. You can see how this is strongly analogous to the first step of deliberate practice. The best performers are focused on how they could get better at some specific element of the work, just as a pianist may focus on improving a particular passage.

With a goal set, the next step is planning how to reach it. Again, the best performers make the most specific, technique-oriented plans. They’re thinking exactly, not vaguely, of how to get where they’re going. So if their goal is discerning the customer’s unstated needs, their plan for achieving it on that day may be to listen for certain key words the customer might use, or to ask specific questions to bring out the customer’s crucial issues.

7) During the work. The most important self-regulatory skill that top performers in every field use during their work is self-observation. For example, ordinary endurance runners in a race tend to think about anything other than what they’re doing; it’s painful, after all, and they want to take their minds off it. Elite runners, by contrast, focus intensely on themselves. Among other things, they count their breaths and simultaneously count their strides in order to maintain certain ratios.

Even in purely mental work, the best performers observe themselves closely. They are able to monitor what is happening in their own minds and ask how it’s going. Researchers call this metacognition – knowledge about your own knowledge, thinking about your own thinking. Top performers do this much more systematically than others do; it’s an established part of their routine.

Metacognition is important because situations change as they play out. Apart from its role in finding opportunities for practice, it plays a valuable part in helping top performers adapt to changing conditions. When a customer raises a completely unexpected problem in a deal negotiation, an excellent businessperson can pause mentally and observe his own mental processes as if from outside: Have I fully understood what’s really behind this objection? Am I angry? Am I being hijacked by my emotions? Do I need a different strategy here? What should it be?

8) After the work. Practice activities are worthless without useful feedback about the results. These must be self-evaluations; since the practice activities took place in our own minds, only we can know fully what we were attempting or judge how it turned out. Excellent performers judge themselves differently than most people do. They’re more specific, just as they are when they set goals and strategies. Average performers are content to tell themselves that they did great or poorly or okay.

By contrast, the best performers judge themselves against a standard that’s relevant for what they’re trying to achieve. Sometimes they compare their performance with their own personal best; sometimes they compare it with the performance of competitors they’re facing or expect to face; sometimes they compare it with the best known performance by anyone in the field.

Any of those can make sense; the key, as in all deliberate practice, is to choose a comparison that stretches you just beyond your current limits. Research confirms what common sense tells us, that too high a standard is discouraging and not very instructive, while too low a standard produces no advancement.

The final element of the post-work phase is affected by all the others and affects them in turn. You’ve been through some kind of work experience – a meeting with your team, a trading session, a quarterly budget review, a customer visit. You’ve evaluated how it went. Now, how do you respond?

Odds are strong that the experience wasn’t perfect; in fact, parts of it may have been unpleasant. In those cases, excellent performers respond by adapting the way they act, while average performers respond by avoiding those situations in the future. That stands to reason. Since excellent performers went through a sharply different process from the beginning, they can make good guesses about how to adapt. That is, their ideas for how to perform better next time are likely to work. So it’s hardly surprising that they are more likely than average performers to repeat the experience rather than avoid it.

But where does the cycle start? Why do certain people put themselves through the years of intensive daily work that eventually makes them world-class great? This is the deepest question about great performance, and the researchers do not offer us a complete answer. We’ve reached the point where we must proceed by looking in the only place we have left: within ourselves. The answers depend on your response to two basic questions: What do you really want? And what do you really believe?

What you want – really, deeply want – is fundamental because deliberate practice is an investment: The costs come now, the benefits later. The more you want something, the easier it will be for you to sustain the needed effort until the payoff starts to arrive. But if you’re pursuing something that you don’t truly want and are competing against others whose desire is deep, you can guess the outcome.

The second question is more profound. What do you really believe? Do you believe that you have a choice in this matter? Do you believe that if you do the work, and do it with intense focus for years on end, your performance will eventually reach the highest levels? If you believe that, then there’s a chance you will do the work and achieve great performance. But if you believe that your performance is forever limited by your lack of a specific innate gift, then there’s no chance at all that you will do the work. What you really believe about the source of great performance thus becomes the foundation of all you will ever achieve.

Such beliefs can be extremely deep-seated. Regardless of where our beliefs in this matter originated, however, we all have the opportunity to base them on the evidence of reality. The evidence offers no easy assurances. It shows that the price of top-level achievement is extraordinarily high. Maybe it’s inevitable that not many people will choose to pay it. But the evidence shows also that by understanding how a few become great, all can become better.

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Entourage Season 5. Episode 7: Gotta look up to get down

Tonight’s episode is amazing. Or this morning since I watched it, this morning 10am in England.

This episode is great, need i say more? Start off with them in the vicinity of many models and there is Ari facing Alan Grey’s dead face.

I would have understand Vince for turning the job down. He turned it down not because of a girl, but because the bloody guy was coming on to him and will probably keep doing so for the ‘you know what’. Especially if Vince is already in the middle of the campaign or photoshoot. That guy was wrong to mix business with pleasure… and probably in a vindictive way. Come on… yes its a million, but to Vince you must remember its just a month’s or 2′s paycheck. For him to do it… would buried the show full stop.

As for the model who seem to like E, it was funny, maybe its just an excuse to get close to E or she sees something in him. Drama was again back to his ‘gal less’ life and Turtle learnt how to be cool and no desperate. He is learning the game, good looking gals go for guys who dont look at them. And he is dressing a little more mature and having a little variety in his attire.

It did gives me a whole good feel about things and that E was being pursued by a female dominatrix like model. How funny and lucky at the same time of course there is the awkwardness of her looking down… when she speaks to him. Who knows? maybe she finds it turning on…. but she did say she don’t want him to be his manager but a spinner? whats a spinner?

As for Ari, the proposal for him to become the president of the studio is a definite attraction. I can certainly take that opportunity up. Its possible he can employ Lloyd to take over some of his agency operations while still working under him but also for him. And have Dana Gordon as the VP in the studio to do things for him too. Ari is capable like I am, i can see him doing a duo role. and that makes him more dynamic. Maybe Dana gordon can be Co-president…. who knows, then he controls the career of Vince and the roles he gets. Its a damn bloody attractive offer if he can do the duo role, but that means he might be over -represented in the show, but it will be cut down and play down the fact he is both anyways. OR he will just reject it and pursue his own agency again. Who knows?

Conflict of Interests?

Look up to get down, You got to be in their fortunate positions to really get the feel and to enjoy what they are feeling. The good feel is coming back, definitely coming back………

I am feeling it. I wish my own life had such a good feel at the moment and in need of some lady luck that the Entourage crew and Ari get so much these days.

Last but not least, sharing the luck guys???

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Top 100 Best Selling Records Of The 21st Century In The UK So Far

Here is just a little information for you:

1.Will Young – Evergreen/Anything Is Possible (1,789 million)
2.Gareth Gates – Unchained Melody (1,338 million)
3.Tony Christie – Is This The Way To Amarillo (1,182 million)
4.Shaggy – It Wasn’t Me (1,179 million)
5.Band Aid 20 – Do They Know It’s Christmas (1,138 million)
6.Kylie Minogue – Can’t Get You Out Of My Head (1,084 million)
7.Shayne Ward – That’s My Goal (1,081 million)
8.Hear’Say – Pure & Simple (1,079 million)
9.Bob The Builder – Can We Fix It (1,009 million)
10.Atomic Kitten – Whole Again (956,000)
11.Gnarls Barkley – Crazy (926,000)
12.Leona Lewis – Bleeding Love (880,000)
13.Leona Lewis – A Moment Like This (825,000)
14.DJ Otzi – Hey Baby (776,000)
15.Enrique Iglesias – Hero (768,000)
16.Westlife – Uptown Girl (756,000)
17.Eminem ft Dido – Stan (731,000)
18.S Club 7 – Don’t Stop Moving (731,00)
19.All Saints – Pure Shores (709,000)
20.Baha Men – Who Let The Dogs Out (707,000)
21.Nelly & Kelly Rowland – Dilemma (706,00)
22.Sonique – Feels So Good (645,000)
23.Elvis vs JXL – A Little Less Conversation (636,00)
24.Black Eyed Peas – Where Is The Love (628,000)
25.S Club 7 – Never Had A Dream Come True (616,000)
26.Robbie Williams – Rock DJ (612,000)
27.Shakira – Whenever Wherever (606,00)
28.Girls Aloud – Sound Of The Underground (596,000)
29.James Blunt – You’re Beautiful (592,000)
30.Shaggy -Angel (589,000)
31.Las Ketchup – Ketchup Song (583,000)
32.Gareth Gates -Anyone Of Us (Stupid Mistake) (575,000)
33. Spiller ft Sophie Ellis-Bextor -Groovejet (Why Does It Feel So Good) (573,000)
34. Eamon – I Don’t Want U Back (569,00)
35.Gary Jules -Mad World (569,000)
36. Rihanna – Umbrella (563,000)
37. Shakira – Hips Don’t Lie (561,000)
38.Leann Rimes – Can’t Fight The Moonlight (560,000)
39.Gareth Gates – Spirit In The Sky (558,000)
40. Wheatus – Teenage Dirtbag (552,000)
41. Crazy Frog – Axel F (550,000)
42. Daniel Bedingfield – Gott Get Thru This (529,000)
43. Eminem – Without Me (523,000)
44. Mika – Grace Kelly (522,000)
45. Afroman – Because I Got High (521,000)
46. Eminem – Lose Yourself (513,000)
47. Will Young – Leave Right Now (510,000)
48. Madonna – Hung Up (506,000)
49. R Kelly – Ignition (Remix) (505,000)
50. Liberty X – Just A Little (501,000)
51. Scissor Sisters – I Don’t Feel Like Dancin (495,000)
52. Daniel Bedingfield – If You’re Not The One (494,000)
53. Ronan Keating – If Tomorrow Never Comes (493,000)
54. Craig David – Fill Me In (490,000)
55. Take That – Patience (488,000)
56. S Club 7 – Reach (483,000 – 488,000)
57. Pussycat Dolls ft Busta Rhymes – Don’t Cha (483,000)
58. Gorillaz – Clint Eastwood (477,000)
59. DJ Pied Piper & The M.O.C. – Do You Really Like It? (476,000)
60. Leon Jackson – When You Believe (472,000)
61. Kelly and Ozzy Osbourne – Changes (471,000)
62. Take That – Rule The World (465,000)
63. Moulin Rouge – Lady Marmalade (464,000)
64. Gabrielle – Rise (458,000)
65. Eminem – The Real Slim Shady (456,000)
66. Modjo – Lady (455,000)
67. Nizlopi – JCB Song (449,000)
68. DJ Sammy – Heaven (446,000)
69. Mark Ronson ft Amy Winehouse – Valerie (445,000)
70. Britney Spears – Oops!…I Did It Again (439,000)
71. Destiny’s Child – Independent Women (437,000)
72. Geri Halliwell – It’s Raining Men (424,000)
73. Nickelback – How You Remind Me (423,000)
74. Snow Patrol – Chasing Cars (421,000)
75. Craig David – 7 Days (419,000)
76. Nickelback – Rockstar (412,000)
77. Bloodhound Gang – Bad Touch (410,000)
78. Atomic Kitten – The Tide Is High (409,000)
79. Timbaland presents OneRepublic – Apologize (407,000)
80. Holly Valance – Kiss Kiss (405,000)
81. Eric Prydz – Call On Me (404,000)
82. Scooter – The Logical Song (404,000)
83. McFly – All About You (403,000)
84. Melanie C ft. Lisa “Left Eye” Lopes – Never Be The Same Again (402,000)
85. Sugababes – About You Now (401,000)
86. Madonna – Music (399,000)
87. Sugababes – Push The Button (395,000)
88. True Steppers ft. Dane Bowers & Victoria Beckham – Out Of Your Mind (394,000)
89. Ronan Keating – Life Is A Rollercoaster (391,000)
90. Westlife – What Makes A Man (390,000)
91. Akon – Lonely (388,000)
92. Westlife – You Raise Me Up (387,000)
93. Atomic Kitten – Eternal Flame (385,000)
94 .S Club 7 – Have You Ever (382,000)
95. Madonna – American Pie (381,000)
96. Bob The Builder – Mambo No.5 (380,000)
97. Cheeky Girls – Cheeky Song (Touch my bum) (379,000)
98. Duffy – Mercy (378,000)
99. Timbaland presents DOE & Keri Hilson – The Way I Are (376,000)
100. Daniel Powter – Bad Day (375,000)

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Guess the Gadget??? A quiz on msn

Gadget Quiz Link

Experiement link …. hehehe Help

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What is a crump?

What is a crump?

The significance of 9 right in the centre of a 9 square ‘soduku’ like grid.

Is it call crump? Hmmmm….9 bling bling bling….. hmmm

crump

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Entourage Season 5, Ep 6: Redomption, Aired: 10/12/2008

This episode is very weird. Not showing or telling my age at all, I used to have a very close friend, but he is more like drama, slightly delusional and eccentric. Of course, I have a Vince, or who i consider as Vince, there are a few friends but their roles are not defined as they are all commitment phobics in their own lives.

I am my own Vince, but I prefer to be E. Hence its always nice to be a step behind someone, and know all you have to do is give your full support. That drama/ self proclaim Vince childhood friend of mine… are very much ungrateful and you will never hear from him again if he has a girlfriend.

Glad that some people has their own E, Drama, Vince or Turtle in their lives. I have a brother but a younger one. In many ways, I was a bit drama, a bit of vince, a bit of E, a bit of Ari even, and a bit of turtle. unfortunately mostly the weird personalities that roll into me, although there are still some positive aspects of them in me, if not i would have been truly F***.

This episode brings something close to heart and I am not sure I will forgive or talk to the guy i know since i was 11 years old. There is a stage where you know enough is enough. But for Vince to once again, lending his hand and willing to help Dom, its admirable.

Drama in this episode is just being plain weird and eccentric, but aint all the stars in Five Towns seem to be a bit of a D**k. Hmmm, Turtle will always do well, he should be a party organiser or something. If celebs want a party, he will organise it.

The Dom cancer rumours was giving me mix signals as i was waiting for him to tell Vince he has cancer, but never came out from his mouth.

As for Ari’s session with Grey, it seems both The Ramones and Smoke Jumpers might be on the cards since Alan Grey is dead. Really? Dead!!! …. damn… i was still shock from that…., i thought it will merely be the case of he will thank Ari for bringing him to hospital or change of heart with the ‘new’ Alan Grey giving Vinnie his role for smoke jumpers.

It baffle me somehow. What is going to happen, all we know, without Alan Grey, things will start to open up again, as it was Alan Grey who hated Vince and prevented a few roles going Vince’s way.
I guess karma and payback is really a B***h. i hope my career luck comes too, as it seems my present predicament is more of turtle than Vince. Hey ladyluck, come on… smile on me already!!!, I promise i will marry you and not cheat, provided you look a least ‘average’.

LOL….. Vinnie and E…. come on……after Redomption… its time to Dominate Hollywood again.

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